"Most of the time, I have all these thoughts bouncing around in my head"

Just incase you were wondering, which you probably weren't but I'll tell you anyway cause this is my blog ;), that quote was from "The Notebook." I just got out of a car that I was in for 6 hours driving home from seeing my family, and I decided to have a day to myself. Blogging, memorizing lines, painting my nails, watching some movies (ok mostly chickflicks), pizza...I am sooo relaxed which I haven't been in awhile. I've been thinking why do we let the little things stress us out? Why do we let what others say/do bother us soooo much? This girl has been talking crap about me saying stuff like I need to move back to my homestate if I love it so much etc. and it kind of upset me. But why? Also, I got kind of jealous about my boyfriends ex. But why? I know how I feel about him and how he feels about me, so why stress out? There are more important things in life than worring about things that won't matter in a few days/weeks/months/years. So I'm going to relax and try to stop caring about things that don't really matter.

After a long day...this is what I choose to blog about?

So one of my co-workers just got a new girl friend and he came up to me and asked "does the personal questions about your relationship ever stop?" I told him honestly that after awhile people start to ask fewer and fewer but some people will always want to know whats going on, and it can start to get annoying after awhile, but you just have to decide who you want to tell what and stick to that.
Also, kind of going back to my last post. I recently found out that some girl was talking about me behind my back and it made me wonder...why? Why does she care? Why do I that she does? Why does she act one way to some and another to others? Why do we all have different masks for different people? It really doesn't make that much sense to me but I can leave those questions aside for now while I try to figure out another: Confront her or let her be?